Ever wonder why we spend so much time worrying about spring cleaning, purging our overabundance of things, reorganizing our homes, and trying out new body detoxes to clean out those winter cobwebs and reemerge fresh and new for the season. We spend so much of our time rearranging the space around us, and the physical space within us through diet and exercise, but so little time on our minds.
It wasn’t until I heard a lecture given by Tenzin Palmo, a Tibetan Buddhist nun, who said that "the mind is the true home, but we don’t clean it, get rid of the junk, exercise it, or air it out." It was at a retreat in Dharamshala, northern India, where I began to discover techniques to rewiring the mind to free it from all the clutter.
The mind is our true home. This is where the conscious lies. Instead of focusing on detoxing and cleaning our outer and physical space, why not try to exercise that mental space? We spent an hour at the gym, or 90 minutes at the yoga studio, giving our bodies that extra attention it needs to tone and redefine how it articulates in our daily lives. We eat clean and natural foods, free of GMOs, preservatives, and trans fats. But if the mind, (the chitta) the full consciousness that allows for a clear perspective on life and happiness, is unclean, unstable, then the rest doesn’t matter.
We’re not machines, but we often get caught up in what Jon Kabit-Zinn calls the “time urgency”. Where we are run by our thoughts that convince us that we have to do this and that to function and be happy. We spend all our time going through a checklist of things we need to do: pick up groceries, make dinner, do laundry, do this at work, call that person, write that email, do at least 45min of exercise, sleep at least seven hours. We create our own stipulations for how our lives must be or else we won’t be content. Often, healthy people are the worst at creating time urgency. They deliver standards for themselves to follow in order to be a good healthy person. They stress over if they’ve followed their guidelines, if they’ve gotten enough exercise, eaten well, or presented themselves to others in a holistic way to others.
We become convinced by our own ego-self (the ahamkara), our own sense of identity, that we need to be a certain way. We become attached to activities and rituals that we think we need to be the type of person we think we are, but it’s unnecessary. Peace begins from the mind.
Have you ever crossed paths with a Tibetan monk? Or looked at the Dalai Lama when he speaks? There’s a particular lightness in their presence. They look irrevocably happy, and content. The Tibetans may be refugees, and uprooted from their homeland, but I’ve crossed many a Tibetan monk’s path, and the glint in their eye brings peace to my soul. It’s not in the maroon robes, or shaved heads, or their diet, but in their minds that brings them that air of contentment.
The Tibetan Buddhists exercise their mind daily through meditations. They work towards quelling the fluctuations that make the majority of us seem scattered and strung out. The second aphorism in Patanjali’s yoga sutras: yoga citta vrtti nirodhah (yoga is the restriction of the fluctuations of consciousness). The fluctuations are constant. They are the alerts on your smart phone when you get a text, they’re the traffic jam, the line up for a coffee, the to-do list, the friends you have to see, the way you have to look. It’s everything that fluctuates, that doesn’t have permanence in this life.
When you’re laying in savasana, or even in bed at night, and your mind wanders into the fluctuations it prevents you from finding peace with the present moment. The tools are there to find peace, and it begins with meditation, whatever that means for you. It could be becoming mindful in daily chores, like doing the dishes, or it could be going for a long run to empty your mind. For some it’s sitting, practicing non-doing, for a length of time. Focusing on the breath, and tracking the thoughts as they pass by, but letting them go and not clinging to them. They’re just thoughts that we create, and we can let them go. Another opportunity to clear, or detox the mind, is to participate in a retreat. Like a vipassana or meditation retreat, where you refrain from speech and stray from your comforts, to dwell only on settling the consciousness. Many people think that not being able to speak for a week is impossible but consider it like a vacation from your self. You don’t have to think and conjure what to say to others. You simply live in peace with yourself, and spend quality time rediscovering the breath, and rewiring the mind. Think of it like defragging a computer. Every once and a while I used to defrag my old laptop, to put things back in order, delete old files, and clear space so that my electronic mind flowed smoothly again. Why don’t we do that with our own minds?
There are techniques that can be practiced daily, and discovered through retreats, yoga, mindfulness guru’s like Jon Kabat-Zin or Thich Nhat Hanh, that once you imbibe their qualities it’s like learning to ride a bike, you’ll never forget. There will be moments that you’re tested, but once you gain new perspective, and a method to still your mind, you realize that your thoughts are just thoughts and not really who you are. Try exercising your mind this spring, and find your method to be free and enjoy each moment as it is, as you are.